Friday, April 02, 2004

Making Decisions

When you make a wrong decision you take that as a lesson to be learnt. Before making a decision, facts are usually known to you. You may have all the facts you need, you may only know some of the facts, or you may even have only just a little which makes it hard for you to make the decision.
Sometimes in order to come up with a decision there are certain actions that need to take place first. Situations can sometimes be straightforward and sometimes it can just make your head spin. But no matter what a decision still needs to be made.

Every decision involves risks. Every decision has its advantages and disadvantages. A good example would be making business decisions. Every business decision involves risk. To invest is to risk loss; to delay is risk potential earnings. Decisions made in business can end up either hitting the jackpot or falling bankrupt.

What about decisions concerning matters of the heart? Decisions concerning family? Decisions concerning love?

When it comes to family, whatever decisions you make, makes a difference. It can bring a family closer or further apart. It is said that blood is thicker than water, in whatever decision you make the good case scenario is that it would usually be supported by your family members (note that I’m using usually and not always). But you’ve gotta be careful with your decisions when family pride, value and concerns are involved. Sometimes the simplest decision you make do make a whole lot of difference. For me the best advice is to listen to what your heart tells you.

Love. Falling in love. When you do it hits you hard, sometimes you dont know what hit you until its too late. But what if you are fortunate enough to realise it? What would you do? Will you keep to yourself or would you express it? When you are on the receiving end would you embrace it or reject it? A decision has to be made. Risk has to be taken. Would you take the risk? afterall to love is to risk rejection; to love is to risk not to be loved in return. So what do you do? When it comes to matters of the heart it cannot be compared to making business decisions afterall hearts and feelings are involved.

It takes courage to takes risks. Decisions are part and parcel of human lives. For me i have yet to make that certain decision. The dateline is drawing nearer by the minute. Am i prepared to take the risk? Am i ready to make that decision? I have yet to decide so help me god...

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4/02/2004 07:38:00 PM
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.The Writer.

I love standing in the rain, letting the feel of raindrops caress feverish skin, letting it wash away my thoughts, worries and pain. I love the feel of sand between my toes, the cool wind whispering in my ear, the soothing sound of the sea, the warmth of a hug. I love anything vintage, historical, mysterious and magical. I like to laugh, I like freedom and happiness, I like the idea of romance, being swept off my feet and happy endings. I currently have no idea where i'm going but i know i'll get where i'm suppose to be in due time. I want things i cant have, I dream of things that can never be but i'm too afraid to leave the things i'm familiar with even when i know i'm adaptable to change. I can be the person you love or hate, like or loath, admire or envy. I am not perfect,
I am just me.