Wednesday, April 28, 2004

Wondering

Have ever you ever wondered if whatever a person blogs is actually true?
Sure ppl always say that their blogs are their personal space they can write whatever they think, say and feel... but then do we even realise how many ppl actually read our blogs. Oh i do know of ppl who actually read mine without me knowing cause they dont tag but still i know they do and i dont mind after all this is a public blog aint it. Anyone and everyone can access to it cause i'm basically linked up to different ppl.
The thing is how far to an extent do we say whatever we feel? Words. Words may seem nothing in the eye of some but its power is something we cant comprehend. Words after all can change lives, save the world and even give hope. I marvel at the power of words. Even a simple no or a yes can change how you view something. There's this saying that kids usually say "stick and stones may break our bones but words will never hurt us" well in some aspects it can be true because its how you choose to accept what ppl say or refuse to let it hurt you but then what if the person who is saying those words actually hurt you? and they may be your loved ones or closed ones to boot... Its another matter altogether aint it? Sometimes we dont realise what our words mean to someone. A simple thank you or even the words I love you means a lot to someone even tho we may not realise it.
Same goes for the words you put in your blog. You may not realise it but sometimes you're hurting someone with your words. Then you may ask why the hell do you care right? Because sometimes the person who is hurt is someone you care abt and you may not know you're hurting em. Sometimes the mose drastic consequence is that it might get you killed. I'm not bluffing you... it happens... the world is not as perfect as it seems to be...
I guess if you dont wanna hurt anyone and ultimately say anything you damn well feel get your own private personal diary, you can crap whatever you want there...
Reading a person's blog... why do you read em? Do know what's going on in a person's life? To feel what the person feels? DIff ppl have their diff reasons. Its never wrong to read cause its online for a reason and you cant say its private cause in the world of cyberspace nothing is actually is. Yes the bloggers may bitch abt how they get unwanted ppl reading their blog but think abt it why do u blog online in the first place?
Its one thing to read a person's blog and another to critisize the content and judge the person. Afterall you should respect the person for who he/she is. At least the person is brave enough to voice out their feelings, to share, to expose themselves.... its not wrong to give your views, feedback, comments but when you negatively critisize it and question the person of who they are then there's something wrong there... afterall who are you to say who the person really is... remember blogs dont make 100% of the person... its just part of em cause the words are from them but then is what they really saying on their blogs all true?

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4/28/2004 01:37:00 PM
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.The Writer.

I love standing in the rain, letting the feel of raindrops caress feverish skin, letting it wash away my thoughts, worries and pain. I love the feel of sand between my toes, the cool wind whispering in my ear, the soothing sound of the sea, the warmth of a hug. I love anything vintage, historical, mysterious and magical. I like to laugh, I like freedom and happiness, I like the idea of romance, being swept off my feet and happy endings. I currently have no idea where i'm going but i know i'll get where i'm suppose to be in due time. I want things i cant have, I dream of things that can never be but i'm too afraid to leave the things i'm familiar with even when i know i'm adaptable to change. I can be the person you love or hate, like or loath, admire or envy. I am not perfect,
I am just me.