Thursday, May 27, 2004

Sometimes in life, in whatever you do, in whatever situation you are in, in whatever position you are in, whatever your actions are, whatever you have said, you've gotta take a step back and take a look at the other side, see the broader view, try and feel what the other side feels cause it will do you some good.

When we fail to pause and take a step back and disaster struck you fail to see what actually went wrong... then in common human nature the blame is pointed on the other party. and from there the same mistake will be done, the same comments will be made, the same problems will come back and that's where you should notice that there's something wrong somewhere.
But then in some cases, a person fails to see what it is that's wrong and they keep coming up with the same excuses and would expect ppl to feel sorry for them.

One thing i belive in life and i learnt is that one should take ownership in the things he does.
When you do something or make a decision and something goes wrong, you should take ownership cause it was your actions, your decisions. When you say something and ppl get offended, take ownership cause it was your words that hurt their feelings, put yourself in their shoes how would you feel if the words were put to you? Same goes when you do something and it offends someone, same thing applies.

A cowards' way out is always to blame other ppl for their actions and mistakes cause to them what they did was within reason, blame the other ppl for not being to able to have a sense of humor and not be like them, but then what gave you the right to judge or to tell a person how they should feel. God didnt create everyone to be the same. Everyone is different.

Taking ownership sounds simple but how many ppl can actually do that? It takes a brave person to take ownership....

So then.. are you brave enough?

so if you are brave enough then what is the next step? Taking ownership is not just taking it, bitch abt it a lil bit and then leaving it like that...

sometimes you've gotta

make amends and learn from the mistake/suggestions/opnions as to put it to good use...

what's your take on this?

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5/27/2004 03:21:00 AM
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.The Writer.

I love standing in the rain, letting the feel of raindrops caress feverish skin, letting it wash away my thoughts, worries and pain. I love the feel of sand between my toes, the cool wind whispering in my ear, the soothing sound of the sea, the warmth of a hug. I love anything vintage, historical, mysterious and magical. I like to laugh, I like freedom and happiness, I like the idea of romance, being swept off my feet and happy endings. I currently have no idea where i'm going but i know i'll get where i'm suppose to be in due time. I want things i cant have, I dream of things that can never be but i'm too afraid to leave the things i'm familiar with even when i know i'm adaptable to change. I can be the person you love or hate, like or loath, admire or envy. I am not perfect,
I am just me.