Its a saturday and i'm bored
no plans whatsoever....
didnt go to the NE talk today cause i found out that next week's topic is more interesting.
If i'm ever going for a talk at least it has to be an interesting topic and not a topic which is gonna babble about something that i'm not interested in haha....
took a pic with yolanda's phone yesterday after my haircut...
any difference??
haha... not much of a difference i suppose, just that the length is shorter...
hmm what should i do today?
i could study but i'm not in the mood cause i usually study at night...
hmm maybe watch the gundam seed destiny episode that my bro downloaded.. well after he finishes watching it... but after that then what?
dont you just hate it when you have time in your hands and you dont know what to do about it?
haiz
maybe i'll go finish reading my novel then read up some conveyancing stuff hehz....
maybe i should get myself a boyfriend then perhaps we will have something to do together
wahahaha...
kidding.... =P
came across this interesting article online about The EUM factor...
here's an extract of the article...
We all know at least one emotionally unavailable man. Some of us even try to live with them, or even marry them. Millions of us around the world are in love with them. The casualty rate around these men is high - they break hearts as easily as they walk away. No matter how much you try to avoid them, they bounce around the next corner waiting to dazzle you with their charm. There is not a woman in the land who has not encountered an EUM with the emotional maturity of a one-year old.
Refusal to commit
But why do some men refuse to commit and live up to the expectations of the women who love them? 'Simply because we are different,' argues Dr Philip Cox, a London based psychotherapist.' Men like the chase, and love to chase after something they can't have. Once they've got it, it loses its allure.'
According to Dr Cox, EUM's are only doing what they are biologically primedto do. 'We have only been living the life we have been living for about 2000years. For millions of years before that, men had a quick screw and moved on.The reason why men find it hard to commit is because they are wired not tocommit. Some men can fall in love and stay with that person, because they have learnt to override their biological programming.'
But according to Dr Cox, EUMs can change. 'But usually only when they have had someawful experience and burn out. They are stopped in their tracks and theyrealise they can't go on as they are devastating theirs, and others lives.'
hmmz....
aite will go finish reading my book now...
salute!
